Marketta Vest-Hiller's Story

What were the steps leading up to your diagnosis?

I had always been fatigued due to my Graves' Disease (thyroid) however after my son was born via cesarean I added to my symptom list: intense back pain, memory loss, whole body aches and fatigue. I was always incredibly exhausted.

What lifestyle changes have you needed to make?

My life has changed completely since my diagnosis. I slowly became incapable of functioning at work because of my confusion and pain. As a result, I was fired. Everything that I do each day, even something as simple as twisting the toothpaste cap, is difficult due to my pain.

Who has been there for you? How?

My husband has been my strength and my biggest supporter. He encouraged and helped me to find doctors that could uncover what was wrong with me. Now, post-diagnosis, he will do anything from doing the laundry to cooking to caring for our son when I am too weak or hurting. I would be lost without him.

What accomplishment are you proud of?

I am proud of my ability to remain a positive person and still be able to, in my son’s eyes, be the best mom ever.

Is there anything else we should know?

I really enjoy the theatre and photography and, of course, being with my awesome family.

What's your advice to someone else living with Fibromyalgia?

Never give up and no matter how cliché it sounds: literally take one day at a time.

Don't ever forget who you are deep down, not even on your darkest, hardest day. Oh, and write things down because you will forget.